DD has been sick all week and today DH has gotten it. After spending much of the morning complaining about not being well, he also announced that he still had some presents to buy and was going into the city to get some. After coming home later than he said, he's fallen asleep on the sofa.
Every time DD asks him to build her xmas present (which he got on weds and I spent all day yesterday clearing her room to make space for) he snaps at her to give him peace and let him sleep. But he wont let me help either.
I have had a go at him for leaving everything til the last minute and upsetting DD. He shouted back that he spent x amount of money on me because I wanted 'extra presents' and he didn't have any money to buy me them until now. He's also shouting at me about getting presents all wrapped but I've been a bit preoccupied with watching sick DD all week, not being able to go out anywhere as a result and not able to wrap with DD not being able to sleep!
I told him he had asked me months ago what I wanted and had plenty of time and should have said at that time if I wasn't going to get it. I told him he was ruining christmas with his attitude and by pointing out how much everything was costing him. DD is upset that her big present isn't built yet and the excitement has been spoiled for her (she's nearly 9, doesn't believe in santa anymore)
So I've got 2 sick people in the house, DH taking it all out on me, I have presents I feel guilty for wanting, and which i know the exact pricing of, I just feel christmas has been ruined now and to top it off we're having dinner tomorrow at MILs who will no doubt lecture me about looking after DH and how he works soooo hard (I work full time too and it was me who took time off to look after sick DD not him). I just can't be bothered with it all.
its the same with holidays. DH ruins it by moaning about the cost.
AIBU to be upset and pissed off? Sorry if it doesn't make sense. I just need to vent and knowing what to say to DH and MIL tomorrow when he tells her how sick he is and how tired he is and how hard he worked etc
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bonnieweelass · 24/12/2016 15:10
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