Stbxh flatly refuses any contact schedule. And expects an ad hoc approach where I never have any plans and give into his requests endlessly.
There were plans for him to take them to lunch today. Then I am taking the kids to my mums over xmas.
He's just messaged to ask to take dd to the cinema after lunch. Which messes up my plans so I said no. He didn't give me any notice and as such I have plans.
He has demanded I cancel my plans as he 'never sees them' and we hadn't agreed a due back time.
Over the last 5 months he typically has them (well actually this the first time he's gonna take both kids out!!!!) for a matter of hours. Then returns them.
Aibu saying no to changing my timings?
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Saying no to ex's last minute demands
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GettingScaredNow · 24/12/2016 09:25
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