DH spends an awful lot of his time on his phone when at home messaging, surfing and general stuff like that which is a bit of sore point between us. I've never snooped on him (see below!) or what he does but I do get upset at how much time he spends typing away and not talking to me in the evenings.
Yesterday afternoon (were both off work for Xmas with the kids) he left his phone open when he popped to get a drink for one of the little ones and I happened to notice that one of the whatsapp groups he was chatting on had the group icon a what looked like a female stripper in Christmas lingerie and fishnets. I quickly opened the group and saw it was his work mates chatting the usual work and drinks organising stuff bit also agreeing that the new group icon was "a bit of alright". DH was one of the ones saying he liked the look of her.
AIBU or pull him up on it? If so, how do I do it without making it look like I was checking up on his phone? I don't look like the girl in the picture at all and I think this is one of the reasons we are having a low moment in our relationship. I'm pretty emotional at the moment due to Christmas so might be blowing this all out of proportion!
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Sorry another DH issue. Probably BU!
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SimplyChoco · 23/12/2016 16:08
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