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My ds2 has been bullied in high school for the previous years. Me and the school took a hardline on this and eventually three of the boys were excluded for there actions (plus some other stuff). The police were also informed as they were also racist towards by son who is of a mixed heritage.
Yesterday evening my son received a message from an account without a profile on facebook. It was a picture of ds2 with a racial slur written in bold white letters.
I knew it was them, what I didn't know was how they found the facebook. It's a private account with just family and very close friends, it's a private account under a nickname. Ds accepted the friend request for this account and he didn't really think much of it.
However what i didn't know until today was that my step daughter is friends with one of the bullies. They are practically our neighbours and live on the same housing development. So I went and had a word with the bullies boys mum and she said she was shocked and the boy is in a lot of trouble (she sounded furious). What I didn't know was my dsd was hanging round with them yesterday.
I had a bad feeling as soon as I heard this, it then clicked as to how they found my sons facebook. So I quietly asked dsd if she had told them about ds2 facebook being him. She basically admitted to telling them. She said she didn't think they would send something like that and they told her they would not. I didn't show it but I felt so angry at her.
I felt betrayed by her, She knows what they are like she should have done better. I just can't look at her this evening. I told dh and he is very angry (she tried to blackmail him like she does).
To my stepsons credit he was very kind to my son although he is also friends with these boys he's not as close.
It's made me want to move, I feel so bad for ds2 of whom he has had to put up with racial abuse. The development does not have many young people live on it and so these boys seem to be big players in a very small pond.
I did not take it too the police but I let all the boys mums involved to be aware that if another single word is sad to ds2 I will.
My children's ages as i didn't mention them are ds1 17, ds2 16 dss 17 dsd 15 (same year as ds2).
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To be very disappointed in my step daughter today :(
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