DH and I have been together 7 years, married 4. We have a one year old DD.
We met under somewhat unconventional circumstances via a BDSM website.
Our sex life was very good in the early months, but for two years now, we've not had sex.
We were trying for our DD for two years before having IVF. The reason given was unexplained infertility, however, the actual reason is that my DH could only manage to have sex once per month, and even then, he didn't always reach orgasm.
As soon as we started IVF, he stopped having sex with me. I constantly bring this up as a source of intense frustration, and he promises that he will try harder. He even saw a sex therapist for a grand total of four sessions. He says he found the process of ttc very difficult.
Anyway, I can count on one hand the amount of time we've had without the baby since she was born a year ago.
By happy coincidence, she is at nursery this morning, and my DH is off work. However, he has spent the last two hours doing a not very important task, and I'm at home alone.
AIBU to expect he'd want us to spend time together? Even without sex?
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Moocowface · 22/12/2016 12:49
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