My mother in law and sister in law.
There is of course a back story in as much as they have never really liked me very much but they try to cover it and are usually smiles and friendly when my husband is around.
My husband asked his mum if we could drop our children off with my mother in law and sister in law today, so that we could go to a meeting that we couldn't really bring them along to.
After the meeting I arrived (alone) to collect the children at the agreed time. My 2 year old melted down as he hadn't had his nap. They just stood from a distance and watched me try to get his shoes and coat on with bemused looks on their faces. My 3 year old then also melts down (!!) but no offer of help from anyone. My mother in law kept saying "he was really good while he was with us" on repeat.
No one in my circle of family or friends behaves like this. People try to help, or say something kind when you are struggling with an overtired child. They usually empathise. My in laws just look on as though they are weighing up how I manage/talk to the children. It makes me feel so judged and I come away wanting to avoid them for a long time.
I am dreading Christmas Day.
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Violetoo · 21/12/2016 19:39
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