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To not want to have Christmas Day lunch at mother's house?

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Billowisp Tue 20-Dec-16 19:15:49

Have been NC with her for over a year (serious mental health issues as a result of her narcissism when growing up ) complicated as she lives very close and dcs/ dh still see her every few days.
Last year dh and dcs cooked at hers and I joined them all to eat. It was really stressful for me and this year I just don't want to put myself through that, I want peace and quiet at home with dh and the dcs
They cannot see why I won't go and I am beginning to feel selfish and spoiling their day by telling them to go and I will have late lunch with them

harderandharder2breathe Tue 20-Dec-16 19:21:58

Your DH should support you in this, and have Christmas at home with you and your children

He can take them round after dinner to see her.

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