I've posted about my DB briefly before. He left his wife last year after an affair with someone 20 years younger. They are still together. I've met her once.
It's been a bit devastating for the family, specially (of course) the DC, so I was hoping that Christmas would help heal things a bit. We don't live near each other so we all do Xmas separately but all travel to be together for NYE. I know my neice and nephew are very much looking forward to it. I hoped to get to know the new gf a bit better, too.
Anyway, DB is now being really evasive about when he is coming, whether gf is going to be with him etc. As far as the kids are concerned, they are definitely think they are coming but I'm not clear when he saw them last. He's on holiday at the moment with gf. (Without the DC) I've texted him a few times but he's fobbing me off saying he's really busy. I'm thinking maybe it isn't an exciting enough NYE for them?
I have tried to be so neutral about this, tried not to judge, but to be honest if he doesn't turn up it will be the last straw and I am worried I might say something about his utterly shabby, cowardly behaviour. Am I over-reacting?
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NYE, DB and his new gf, families, eh?
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balia · 18/12/2016 19:47
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