A friend posted a photo of her twin boys today having received their random secret santa gifts at school. Kid A got a toy truck, Kid B an arts and crafts kit. Her header was along the lines of 'look how unhappy Kid B is as opposed to Kid A'.
I hate the idea of gendered toys so it riled me a bit. What really pissed me off were the comments saying 'oh no, how awful for him' and 'poor him' etc. I was the only one who said I didn't see the problem and that I found those views disappointing. Cue angry responses from my friend saying that I had shamed her friends, family and son by expressing that view.
I think that it's reasonable to challenge a sexist point of view and don't see how I was shaming her child in any way. AIBU?
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Doman · 17/12/2016 01:09
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