I'm on mat leave and have been asked 30+ times if I'll be going back to work and, when I say yes, if I'll be part time.
My DH has never once been asked about his working hours since our DS was born.
And if I say yes I am going back to work I get "oh, will your DS go to nursery/will you get a nanny?" The idea that my DH could look after DS for some of the time while I'm at work just doesn't even enters people's heads.
I don't blame people for asking because they're just making conversation. And it seems they are making a reasonable assumption as if one of the couple is going to give up work/reduce their hours, most of the time it will be the woman. In my experience at least.
But why is this? I see so often on here people saying that their OH couldn't go part time or is the higher earner. But all the latest reports suggest women in their twenties are now out earning men so that can't be true for the majority.
Is it just a cultural thing?
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Why is it usually the woman who gives up work?
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Firedoll · 30/11/2016 10:11
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