So I work very part time self employed. At the moment maybe 20 hours per month. I do maybe half when dh I'd available to look after DC and the other admin half I do around caring for dds aged 12 10 and 4. Dh works maybe 40 hours per week in a well paid job which covers all the bills etc.
During the week he does nothing around the home. I cook ,clean, do the laundry etc and look after Dd3 when she isn't in nursery and ferry older two to their many activities. I am alsodoubt a couple of GCSE to help prepare me for returning to work once Dd3 is full time in school. The evenings do piss me off abut as dh usually sorts food out for himself and leaves a mess for me to tidy but I can't really complain as he does have a health condition so is limited in what he can do I. The evening anyway. Although he certain could wipe down a worktop.
Anyway this is the background. My current issue is about what happens when illness strikes.
All the DC have been ill recently and me to a lesser extent. All the additional work is comforting youngest in the early hours and multiple bedding changes etc falls to me. When I was ill I just got on with it.
Contrast with dh who pretty much took to his bed on Sunday leaving me to get on with the day to day stuff alone. In the early hours of Monday youngest was really poorly and I was up from 4am. Tbf dh looked awful Monday morning so had a day sick which he spent in bed either asleep or watching telly. Yet when I am ill I have to get on with it.
In fact obe day I was ill and dh was working from home. He couldn't even rearrange his day to do the breakfasts and morning school run when I had sickness and diarrhea.
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Luvwales74 · 29/11/2016 09:13
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