We were due to visit my home town with DH and 3 DC for Christmas.
My DB and DSIL, DF and elder DB all in hometown. DM died 2 years ago so going home is difficult enough.
Last visit was January for DB birthday.
We have a disabled DS. Every time we seem to do this journey DS ends up having clonic tonic seizure and we end up in a hospital up north.
This year DS has spent lots of time in hospital and we have had to cancel an important operation on his eyes. He has microcephaly so small head and small tubes so his tear ducts constantly get blocked and his eyes become glued shut and due to his disabilities ( and the fact they are glued shut) it's really difficult to get his eyes open. We've been waiting for the operation since February (totally different AIBU) and now been given date of 20th Dec for op.
Here we go ....... AIBU to cancel our trip up north because we can't risk DS being poorly again and having to cancel op again ? I know my family are disappointed but surely my kids come first !!!! I want my boy to be able to open his eyes!
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DYRK1a · 29/11/2016 01:59
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