Ds wil have to learn the hard way if he keeps being so cAreless
So far we had him lose his £195 buss pass two days after he got it we told him that tbh we wouldn't be able to replace it even though it's for collage that would have been nearly £400 in one week and that would not have been viable for us luckily he was able to replace it for £10 he had to pay for that out of his wages
Then he lost his ID card for the train and he refused to replace it after me telling him to replace it then he got caught by the train inspector without it and was fined £65 plus £10 for a new card we made him pay that so this month he pretty much worked for nothing because he has to put £50 towards his savings and £35 keep
Then today he's come home and lost his keys he not even borthering to look for them that's fine but he will now have to wait until next months wage to get a key cut to be honest we can't afford to keep subbing his carelessness
Yesterday he lost a new tub of cream in his room because it's so messy and simply just went to get a new one instead of looking for the one he lost and we also wondered why he was going through a can of deodorant every two days yes every two days because not only is he using it under his arms he's using it as Boady fucking spray
I have told him to ask for more body spray if he needs it and not just use the deodorant because he can't be arsed to ask for some and have limited him to 2 cans a month because dh and I use the same one and are only using 1 can every 8 or 9 days I one bottle of cream every 3 weeks
He's being so careless in part because he's only paying a nominal charge in keep I feel he's also doing things like leaving the lids of foods or not putting things back in the fridge yesterday he left the cheese out so it went off. I only did a food shop on Saturday and I already have to buy more bloody cheese though I am not going to because I can't afford to really re buy anything he just thinks it's a massive bloody joke
He has also got into a habit if simply chucking clothing away if he can't be borthered to wash them 😳
I don't know why he's like this I a very frugle also we don't spoil him he has a job so you would think he would want to actually keep some of his wage rather than spend it replacing things he lost of broken during the month
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To think ds will have to learn the hard way if he keeps being so careless
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