I didn't really realise until I had kids how different my partner and I would parent our children and it's a source of almost continual conflict. It's made me wonder if some relationships just can't survive children (we are starting Relate soon) or if other people are just better at compromise.
A couple of examples;
I like us to eat around a table together as much as possible- DP isn't arsed and actually went to eat his tea in other room today on his own (rude)
I like the kids to have a defined bedtime routine- DP just lets them run riot, esp if I have gone out
I don't like shouting, particularly in the car. DP just behaves as he likes and shouts and rants at others with kids in the car. He seems to have no boundaries
Having kids has highlighted a lot of issues about how we parent and behave.
Aibu to ask for some other examples of this as wonder if it's just us and that we didn't discuss this enough before having children?
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Mummyyummy2012 · 27/11/2016 18:48
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