My almost 18 year old thinks I'm being too tough on him.
He is doing 5 A-levels which I know is hard, but that's a choice he wanted (wanted to go to grammar school Sixth Form) and I am very proud of him.
He also volunteers at a science museum (wants to go into a science career) once or twice a month.
He has a part-time job too at Sainsbury's. Where he does 12 hours a week.
He says he has no time to see friends, to just relax, etc.
He has asked if he can drop a shift and take up a music lesson, would you let him? He says he'll pay for it, but he says he is a bit too stressed at the moment and would like something fun to focus on too. The thing is, he is free at the weekends. He works 6pm-12 in the week, which is late when he has college but he doesn't mind that. At the weekend he watches Netflix while he goes over school work or does homework, etc. I say that he could use that time to meet friends or take up a hobby and he says that he just needs that time to relax and that he is still doing school work (but is watching Netflix and doing school work, really school work? )
Am I mean mummy? or do lots of your teens have jobs/are busy? like I've told him
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AIBU to ask if your teenagers have part-time jobs? If so, how many hours do they do?
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wwoonn · 26/11/2016 23:59
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