DD 11 1/2 has had trouble with a girl she goes to school with for over a year. Basically this girl looks like butter wouldn't melt but she is very sly, devious and desperate to be popular. Anyway I've kept out of it and tried to Advice DD to find other friends interests away from this girl and move on which she has quietly gradually done etc etc. Now this week this other girl who seems to have had more falling outs with people than mad Mick since the start of secondary is trying to move into my DD's new social circle and winding DD up in various ways. She has started walking to school with them today and took great delight in linking one of other girls saying we're besties and smirking etc. Then she texted DD tonight asking why she was so quiet on the way to school and what was wrong? Anyway tonight my DD snapped big style & sent a text to this girl with swear words in which I knew nothing about. The first I knew of it was when the girls mum forwarded this onto me. I phoned her back apologising for the swearing but went onto explain the background leading up to this for the past year. I think mum was sure she had the moral high ground and was totally unaware and speechless as she was concerned her DD in tears tonight!! Whereas we have had problems since last September!! Her daughter is a massive drama queen and I am sure she may forward this text on to other girls and pass onto my DD's school. Advice please I am mortified by the text message should I contact school to apologise for swearing in text and put DD's side across or leave well alone? I have spoken to DD about swearing. She was in tears and said she had to fight back as she couldn't let her ruin Secondary and take her friends off her etc.
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24/11/2016 23:04
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