My dd is 7 and my ds is 6 and the friend of my dd has just gone home and I have left my two kids downstairs and escapes for some peace in my bedroom. The play dates always end up with screaming, running around, dd and friend not letting ds in the bedroom and him banging the door and me shouting come down and then at dinner there is over the top giggling, messing about, shouting and general disorder. Then more shouting, giggling, dancing at the top of their voices. Nothing really naughty per se but just so LOUD and irritating! No actual fighting or breaking things or naughtiness, just contact silliness.
AIBU in expecting play dates to be regular playing like they do when it's just them with no friends? I tell them to keep it down and tell them off if there is actual naughtiness like hitting or name calling, but I feel I can't tell them off properly like I would if it was just them, as I will embarrass the kids for being shouty and I'd look mean to their friends.
I just hate the racket and chaos!
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AIBU to not have any more play dates?
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Ihatethedailymail1 · 24/11/2016 18:25
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