This really is just the tip of the iceberg, but every single morning I get up to get the children out of their cots. He never does, even though he doesn't work so there's no reason for it. Anyway, this morning I just kept falling back asleep. Apparently (I don't remember as I was half asleep), he kept asking if i wanted him to get them up, and i kept saying no i'll do it. Eventually he got up in a big mood and got them up, then went back to bed. Now, obviously i should have just said yes to him getting them up, but i was probably still in a bit of a dream at that point, but what really annoys me is that he didn't just think to get them up anyway, without having to point out the fact that he was doing it. It's not like every single morning i hear the kids wake up, then wake him up to ask him if i should get them up! Just show some initiative ffs! He's still in bed now while i'm up with the children, and just to show me how angry he was, he said "don't bother making me a coffee this morning"...err, yeah, ok...what a loss for me.
But, as I said, this is the tip of the iceberg, so maybe i'm reacting more angrily to this than is reasonable - what do you all think?
AIBU?
To think partner is a selfish arse?
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