I am 6 months pregnant with our first baby and all excited getting things ready. Husband appears to be totally amazing and supportive in every way until... I spot an fb message on his phone from a girl whose name I don't recognise. I log into his account (which I know its bad) and it appears they chat daily with some low level flirting- nothing too explicit but things like her saying she'll give him a massage when she visits and him responding with "sound, my hip is hurting ". They used to go to school together but they are definitely not close friends as he has never mentioned her before. She lives in Indonesia so I am not worried about them actually meeting up but I don't know how to handle this! I am feeling betrayed, humiliated, scared... but trying to convince myself I am worrying about nothing.
I just want to scream at him why now!? Most of all I am worried the stress is harmful to the baby but I also feel like I can't confront him because I shouldn't snoop into his messages, that was wrong of me.
Am I being unreasonable!?
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6 months pregnant and husband is messaging another girl
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mumtobe0317 · 20/11/2016 18:16
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