Hi everyone , sorry to bother u but I would like people's views on a dilemma I'm currently havin .im a new single dad of a 13 month old baby girl . My issue is , if I was to go thru the csa I would have to pay maintenance of about 65 pounds per week . My ex works full time. So our child needs to go to nursery . This costs 200 pound per week . So because of the way I am I have agreed to give the ex 135 . We have spoke about this and altho it is slot of money for me to afford , the bottom line is , my daughter needs to go to nursery ( even tho I know csa don't take it into account ) . My problem is ,every week I am givin my ex 135 into her account and she not usin it to pay nursery fees . Instead spending it on other things , n not givin nursery a second thought until they send letters , basically sayin my daughter place is under threat due to lack of payment . My daughter loves nursery so I have already found myself footing the bill even tho I have already paid my share to her mum to do this . I'm at my wits end and need other people's advice . I don't want my daughter to lose her place but I can't keep bail in her out . Her mum earns a lot more than me as it is but it's my daughter so I am willing to pay half to the nursery and give another 35 on top . Plz help
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