I had a big birthday in the week and my DH has made a huge effort. So far I've had a surprise night out, an expensive gift, a trip away and a night at a hotel.
But there's a snag. We are in the process of remortgaging and whilst going through the application at the bank it turns out DH has ran up.a credit card debt and not realised. In the grand scheme of things it's not a big problem, but we have been here before and this is actually bordering on being a deal breaker.
When we were younger he did similar and I sorted it out, but I told him I wasn't going to spend my life trying to repair the damage his spending had done.
We are out tonight doing something that can't be cancelled, he's upset (he generally fucks up every birthday) but I'm struggling not to be able to put it to one side and move on.
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Unhappybirthday · 19/11/2016 13:19
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Coconutty ·
19/11/2016 14:18
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