DH and I both work full time, and household work is split pretty fairly. But we both hate cleaning! We keep the house very tidy but it's the dusting and hoovering and mopping that I just can't tolerate. Life is too short!
Turns out that one of the ladies who works for our dog walker (and happens to have fallen completely in love with our dog!) is a professional cleaner. She's coming round next week for an initial chat and then hopefully we we will have her for 2 or 3 hours a fortnight to clean all rooms apart from the bedrooms.
But I feel stupidly guilty about this, like we are failing as grownups because we don't manage this ourselves (we could - we just don't want to!). But I don't feel this way about other people who have cleaners - I think they're smart! But no one I know IRL has a cleaner so maybe I'm worried they will judge us? We're not particularly well off (I earn £36k and DH earns £16k, but both pay off big chunks of debt every month) but I was working from home yesterday and was brought to tears by the amount of bloody dust everywhere!
So I already know IABU because we can afford the £60 a month it will cost us and it will make a big difference to our sanity, and I know I shouldn't give a shit about what anybody else thinks, but I feel I am betraying my council estate working class roots please tell me it will be worth it and that using a cleaner has changed all your lives for the better
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KellyBoo800 · 19/11/2016 08:46
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