This is football related and since I know next to nothing about the game I am prepared to be told IABU.
Recently we were out with a friend who has a young DS, still at primary school, who is very keen on football. He plays for a local boys club and attends mid-week practices regularly and has a match every weekend. Our friend goes to all his sons matches and is very keen to support him in this interest.
So far so good. Jolly good that the wee boy is actively involved in a sport and that the father is encouraging him.
Our friend went on to describe what a "hard" player his DS is. "He doesn't get mad he gets even". Apparently at the age group he plays in the referee can't order a player off the field for a foul but they can ask a team manager to substitute a player. Friend seemed quite impressed that his DS has been substituted in this way several times already this season. He actually described his son as "a bit of a thug" on the field like this is a good thing.
Maybe I am miles out of touch and this is completely normal in childrens football but I just felt slightly shocked that this man seemed proud of the fact that his young DS is already a "dirty" player and encourages him to see this as a good way to play. Other parents with football playing children - what would be your take on this? Am I just being precious?
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AIBU?
to disapprove of this parental attitude to childs sport
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SousaHadABigCurlyOne · 18/11/2016 17:17
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