We all know babies shouldn't be in car seats 'too long'. I am generally over-cautious when it comes to driving (non-driver, don't like going too fast, very nervous of people who drive long distances without proper breaks - which DH's family have a tendency to do). Am I being too nervy about the following:
This weekend, DH wants to drive to see his grandmother in hospital on Saturday, so she can see our ten week old baby girl. It's a two hour drive (each way). He then wants to drive to see his other grandmother on Sunday, which is a two-and-three-quarter hour drive away (each way). I think this is too much driving in one weekend. He has an hour commute to work each day and is constantly saying he's exhausted. He needs downtime at the weekend, not another ten hours behind the wheel of a car. He has arranged for us to have a lift on the Sunday with his parents but this would still involve a half hour drive to and from their house at the start and end of what's likely to be a long day. I am happier with the idea of getting a lift, but it's still almost six hours in a car seat for the baby in total - which I'm not really keen on.
AIBU? How far is too far in a car with a small baby? Is the Sunday trip a bad idea full stop, or is it okay provided he isn't driving? Or am I being a massive fusspot and there's no issue with him doing both trips?
I feel like we should make the effort for the grandmother who is hospital, as she's really not well. The other grandmother, there will be other opportunities to see her (although this weekend is a big family event and I know he will not be happy about missing it). Staying over isn't an option. Train could be on Sunday, but we'd need to lug the car seat so we could get a taxi at the other end - it wouldn't be any quicker and will be expensive, which he will resist because he thinks I'm a twerp being so resistant to just piling in a car and driving for hours and hours and hours no matter how tired you are. What do the wise women of MN think?
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Driving - two month old
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GashleyCrumbTiny · 18/11/2016 16:24
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