I am a woman in my early 60's, in pretty good shape, socially active and generally friendly. I am a keen photographer and on the committee of a local camera club, where it's my job to organise all the competitions. We had such an event last night. After the event, a few of the club members retired to the local pub, just along the road from the hall where we meet, and I walked in that direction with them because my car was parked near there.
As we walked, we were chatting about the competition, and a future club event - nothing personal, just club stuff. When we got to the car, one member - a guy I know well and a fellow committee member, stopped to help me get my stuff into the boot (heavy boxes of mounted photographic prints, a large folio, my lap-top etc) while the others walked on promising to get him a pint in. We continued to chat about general club stuff as I got into my car and I wound the window down to keep talking after I'd started the car and was preparing to drive off. I then bid my club associate good-night and he replied "I love you ... Goodnight" and went off towards the pub.
I was a bit taken aback to be honest. What an odd thing to say!!
I should add that I am married (the guy knows that and has met DH), and have no plans to stop being married, IYKWIM!!
Odd or not?? Is that how casual acquaintances bid each other good evening these days?
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to think that saying "I love you" under these circumstances is a bit odd?
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MrsExpo · 17/11/2016 20:47
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