I am having to do Christmas on a budget this year and it's going to be pretty tight. I have £200 left for most of the presents and any Christmas food.
So I have planned to only spend around £10 (hopefully less) on DS2 this year as he will be 11 months old so he won't notice at all.
I do however plan to spend more on my 3 older DCs as they are 7,5 and 12.
I do have things to wrap for DS2 as a friend was giving away a couple of old baby toys and kindly gave them to me so I plan to wrap them as his christmas present and then get him some christmas pj's and a bag of chocolate coins.
Ex-MIL called today to tell me what she was planning to do for the DCs Christmas presents. She also asked what I was doing so I told her. She was very upset with me. She told me I was an awful mother as I was treating the DCs so unfairly. I tried to explain but she wouldn't listen to me. She just kept telling me that when DS2 get older he will realise that I favoured the other DCs and I'm not trying hard enough and should have saved more or tried to work more to afford enough presents for everyone.
I feel so guilty anyway as none of the DCs are going to have many presents this year. But I really can't afford much more and this seemed like the solution but she is right its really unfair on DS2.
I have no idea what the solution is now, AIBU to not spend equal amounts on all the DCs?
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LegoWalker · 15/11/2016 19:33
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