Some background info...Been split up for 3 years from ex...have maintained no contact throughout and recently came off social media. Our relationship if you could call it that was psychologically abusive with her breaking up with me every other week. That is just the tip of the iceberg of fucked up shit I had to deal with. She eventually ended things and wouldn't let me have any of my furniture or clothing. My counselor suspected borderline personality disorder with narcissistic traits. I am a much much stronger person now and can't believe I ever stayed although I was left with PTSD!
I was a hairdresser at a salon I'll call VS. They saw the emotional effect this had on me and intensely dislike her. My ex knew this.
My ex is also a hairdresser and works at a salon.
I recently got a message from my coworker saying that my ex had been in for a haircut. This has caused me to become livid. I would never go into her salon for a haircut. It's just weird! Especially when I work in my own salon. Even though she ended it 3 years ago, I feel like she has continued to bait me long after. I just want to be left alone.
I feel like I'm being consumed by anger, please knock some sense into me oh reasonable ladies of aibu!
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Saltfish · 15/11/2016 15:35
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