I was away on Sat night - staying with an old school friend. I don't go away often and this was a bit of a girly treat I'd bought her for her birthday.
On Saturday evening DS (17) apparently had a heavy nosebleed at home and when it didn't stop after 30 mins DH took him down to A&E where they ended up checking him over/ blood tests etc and cauterising a vein in his nose, as he has been prone to nosebleeds recently. They were back home by about 10pm he said.
DH didn't call me on Saturday night about it - said he didn't see any point since it was all sorted etc. He did call on Sunday morning to 'let me know about it before I got back' which I thought was fine.
When I got back home at 5 pm on Sunday however there was evidence of the nosebleed left everywhere:
- blood on pillowcase (DS had been lying on bed when it started)
- blood smears on bathroom floor where it had been blotted with loo roll, but not mopped afterwards
- blood-stained top left by the sink in the utility room
When I asked why nobody had cleared it up, DH just very pointedly said "well I took him to A&E"
WTF? AIBU in expecting DH/DS to clean up, rather than waiting for me to get back?"