Sorry this is going to be a bit long...
DH and I had some work done on our house and a conservatory done. We had quotes etc went through the numbers over and over but as these things do we went over budget by around £1800, now we literally used most of our savings to have the work done as long term it will add value to our home and we needed the extra room. The extra £1800 we took from all sorts of places including our own personal savings, both of us around £450 each.
Now I have saved long and hard to build up a little bit of savings for myself, just for rainy days, birthdays, Christmas, treating myself etc and I had £850.
Because of how much we spent on all the work I decided to get myself a little part time job to try and pay back some of the extra money we'd spent (our personal savings, credit card, joint savings etc) so had 3 paycheques before I was unfortunately let go because they decided they didn't need the extra person anymore. The position we are now in as that my personal savings are paid back, the credit card is paid back, our personal savings have had some paid back but my DH has not had anything. I continuously encouraged him every month to also take some of the money as I didn't think it was fair he was leaving himself till last but he kept insisting. The position we are now in as that it's Xmas next month, we have so far bought 0 presents and after talking about it this morning he announces that i should just pay for everyone's presents (roughly £300 this covers all of our family apart from DD) and then when I find a new job (hopefully won't take to long) the first thing that I do is take £150 of that back as his contribution to the presents (he will then only be owed £300) am I being really selfish that I really don't want to. What if I don't find something else?? I've worked so hard building up this money and I don't want to just spend £300 with no sight to get it back anytime soon. AIBU?
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Tryingtostayyoung · 13/11/2016 09:54
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