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Itisnoteasybeingdifferent · 10/11/2016 21:47

warm her (very cold) hands on my tummy,......

I think that is out of order...

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Moondance87 · 10/11/2016 21:49

Dh walked in from work and put his cold hands straight into my bare legs...let's LTBs

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Itisnoteasybeingdifferent · 10/11/2016 21:54

The beauty of our language

LTB... means the same whichever..,

Even so I am not inclined to divorce simply because of cold hands on my warm tummy...

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TondelayaDellaVentamiglia · 10/11/2016 21:56

I am the cold hands feet/arse/body in my relationship...it's dh's duty to be warm.

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Patriciathestripper1 · 10/11/2016 21:57

That's what s Dh's tummy is for 😍

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Itisnoteasybeingdifferent · 10/11/2016 21:59

Says who!?

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Soubriquet · 10/11/2016 22:00

Oh I agree. That's what dh's tummies and backs are forGrin

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Rainydayspending · 10/11/2016 22:00

Weirdly I really like warming up DH when he's been outside on a nightshift (literally warming, nothing sexy!).

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harderandharder2breathe · 10/11/2016 22:01

I stick my toes under my friends (fully clothed) bum while lounging on her sofa Blush

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00100001 · 10/11/2016 22:03

My DH thinks it is hilarious when he puts his cold feet on me in bed. And i have tobuse my proper cross voice. But if I put my cold hands on him, suddenly its not funny... Angry

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Doilooklikeatourist · 10/11/2016 22:04

Thats normal behaviour , whoever is the cold person in the relationship is allowed to warm themselves on the hot one
snuggles ice cold body onto DH

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DreamingOfAFullNightsSleep · 10/11/2016 22:10

Absolutely normal. The sooner my DH accepts this and stops moaning about my feeding hands and feet, the better

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Itisnoteasybeingdifferent · 10/11/2016 22:11

When you get to the big M....

Suddenly cold bums get warm..., And no it's not funny either.... .







ps going to sleep. now

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OdinsLoveChild · 10/11/2016 22:12

And if we never warmed our hands/feet on you then you would be moaning that no-one loves you Confused

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Arfarfanarf · 10/11/2016 22:12

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SerendipityPhenomenon · 10/11/2016 22:12

So far as I'm concerned, DH's primary function in winter time is to be a human hot water bottle for my feet.

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QueenMortificado · 10/11/2016 22:12

If my feet are cold and dp's are warm we have a foot party which basically involves me shouting FOOT PARTY and rubbing them all over his to warm them up

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HerRoyalFattyness · 10/11/2016 22:14

Dp is always warm. So his job is to be my hot water bottle when he's here.

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TondelayaDellaVentamiglia · 10/11/2016 22:17

that is so weird 00100001 BECAUSE I find it's very funny to put my cold extremities on DH, but it really is not in the least bit amusing if he thinks he might do it to me.

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frobskottle · 10/11/2016 22:20

i used to warm myself on my DH after I got called in out of hours on my job, did feel a bit mean about that!! Now I do it and dont feel bad when I get up with our toddler in the night as he never gets up so it's a fair exchange :)
Also I feel I do good payment as I have circulation issues and often have boiling feet going to sleep and he can put his cold feet on my feet whenever he wants and it helps me sleep! Win win situation

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BertieBotts · 10/11/2016 22:23

Mine likes the cold, so he lets me warm myself on him any time!

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sparechange · 10/11/2016 22:25

DH is away for work tonight so I've had to resort to putting my cold feet on the dog's tummy to try and warm them up
She gave me a look and moved

I've put some socks on. It's not the same Sad

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ItShouldHaveBeenJingleJess · 10/11/2016 22:25

I feel lonely! No cold OR warm hands for me tonight...

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ThroughThickAndThin01 · 10/11/2016 22:30

GrinGrinGrin

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CharleyDavidson · 10/11/2016 22:31

I always feel cold and DH always feel hot so he insists I warm my hands on him - and my feet when we are in bed.

He bought me a single sized electric blanket just for my side of the bed.

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RosieSW · 10/11/2016 22:35

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