Basically my mil had a meltdown at me about two years ago which resulted in us leaving her house late at night with dd and myself in tears. She was really not nice to me at all and all the we were staying at her house she was doing stuff to antagonise me such as giving my nearly two year old kebab meat and not using the bath stuff is supplied (she had eczema at time) then I went to a funeral and she had a go at me for talking about myself when DP asked me how it went. It was a silly row but after she told sil that is said some things I hadn't said etc c DP wasn't prepared to speak to her until she apologised. I'm quite willing to let it lie for the sake of dd but I understand DP isn't happy with her. I'm really worried about the lack of contact since as I only grew up with only one living grandma and she died when I was 19. When we try to contact her to see if she'd like us to bring dd to her she just complains she is at work or can't do it for some reason. Then she text DP out of the blue asking if she could take dd camping for a week without us 'as I've lost so much time'! We said no because dd is 3 and has seen her once in two years. I have just text her now to see if she'd like me to take her to see her in the next couple of weeks but if she doesn't respond to that I don't know what to do. She sends her gifts from Disneyland in Florida through the post but can't bring herself to visit or FaceTime.
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