Not really aibu but posting here for traffic because I'm at my wits end!
I don't know how to deal with him anymore. He never looks on the brightside, or thinks of positive or constructive ways to get out of a negative situation. He feels everything very acutely- for example, Brexit was the worst thing that could ever happen ect, Donald Trump in power basically means the end of the world. He's argumentative, snappy, isolates himself then complains he has no friends, wonders why people don't want to help him (he is the least charitable person you'll ever meet... I bought his mum a scratchcard, hers won £40, she offered to give me half and I said keep it for your holiday and dh kicked off and asked for it), he honestly can't figure out why people don't like him when he only talks about things that interest him.
He's admitted he's depressed. Now I can sympathise greatly as I also suffer with it. What I don't sympathise with is he won't go for help. He won't speak to a doctor at all, and expects me to be his in house shrink. I'm finding it utterly exhausting as I'm trying to keep my own head above water. I feel like kicking him out isn't the right answer because it'll just make his problems worse and I feel he may try something stupid, i could leave with the kids but then that's not fair on them. All I know is this anger and resentment we all have to live with is not a nice place to live right now!
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user1473509591 · 10/11/2016 08:58
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