Not as bratty as it sounds, and I really don't want to seem ungrateful, but I really don't know how to handle this.
People have asked what I want and I said nothing. They refuse to get me nothing, so I said that, if they are going to insist on spending money, I would prefer if they got one of those charity gifts you can get - food packs/medicine for third world countries, something to help endangered animals etc - or some sort of charity donation.
I have loads of stuff.
Stuff I don't need or want and want to get rid of.
I don't want more stuff.
Everybody is very reluctant to do this and my husband has outright refused, and keeps coming up with money wasting ideas (his heart is in the right place but he always gets it wrong ha ha), as I "haven't told him what I want yet".
AIBcompletelyU in just wanting to save them some money or wanting to use my gifts to help others?
Do I keep pushing for what I want, or should I just accept that they can choose what to get me, even though I can almost guarantee I won't want or need whatever else they buy, and just pretend to want it?
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...to expect to get what I ask for for my birthday?
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