Context...Start of my relationship with DP had its ups and downs and I moaned constantly confided in a couple of close friends. As a result, first time meeting between friend and DP (2 years ago) was frosty (from her). Friend also has a habit of appearing disinterested and coming across a little rude (just her, nothing personal), DP has been reassured by other mutual friends that it’s not him, the friend is just a bit hard work sometimes.
Fast forward…friend has invited DP along to a number of activities her and I have had planned, all of which DP has turned down. Most recent was this morning, a dinner at hers with a group of people, I’m now going alone as DP has yet again turned it down.
AIBU to be a bit upset about this? I have mildly voiced that I’m a bit sad about it, not argued with him but said I’d like it if he made more of an effort. She’s an old friend, we live very close to each other and she’s also bridesmaid at our upcoming wedding. AIBU to feel he should integrate more? Suck it up and make more of an effort with her? We’ve also recently moved to the area and friend is clearly trying to make an effort to introduce us to her larger circle of friends.
Thoughts would be greatly appreciated
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PeppermintToes · 02/11/2016 09:39
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