I've had a very on and off relationship with my ex, he's got real mh problems. History of self harm and alcohol/drug issues. Suicide attempt earlier in the year. I've really tried to hold things together but just started a new job and cannot cope with that on top of dealing with him. So told him a few weeks ago I couldn't have any contact with him other than strictly to make arrangements for our son because I found his volatility too stressful (he showed up two weeks ago announced he was just going to be horrible to me and sorormed off without taking his son for overnigjt contact). He is apparently meant to be getting help- was meant to have an appointment last week with mh team which was cancelled. He now will not communicate with me about arrangements for ds- won't confirm that he will be contactable during contact or the time he will return him. Last week MIL came up even though she is odd at least she was there. No idea what's happening this week and not very comfortable about handing ds over.... handovers are being done at my dads so I don't have to see him... ds is just 2
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MrsBowen · 01/11/2016 07:49
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