I have a SIL who I visited yesterday (let's call her Marge). My other SIL (let's call her Betty) has been seriously ill and took an overdose. She is seeing a therapist. Betty has 4 kids. When she took the overdose, or shortly thereafter she had a massive row with two of her kids who went running to Marge (who also has 4 kids). Fast forward to yesterday: I was talking to Marge's daughter about a cake that Betty's daughter had made for her sister's birthday. Betty's daughter has just finished uni, and is kinda still a student. Marge's daughter asked if I wanted a slice. I did not. I was v full from an earlier meal. I made a jokey remark about Betty's daughter having "best intentions" about making a cake being a student and all (it was actually a lovely looking cake). The convo moved on. A few mins later, rather randomly, Marge pipes up and says "that was a really mean spirited remark, very mean spirited". At first, I didn't know what she meant. Then she said it was what I said about the cake, even her own daughter said "I don't think she meant it like that". I love all my nieces and nephews. Never said anything ill-intentioned about any of them. I got up and told hubby I was waiting in the car. Thing is, she's said really nasty stuff about my food and the pronunciation of my foreign name in the past, I've never taken offence. She said stuff about her own mother on the same visit to her brother which was pretty mean-spirited. I'm not sure why she's taken offence over something so trivial. She did something similar because I dared to wish Betty a happy Christmas one year when she had fallen out with her. The other thing that really upsets me is that my husband didn't say anything to her. I think this condones her bullying behaviour. Really cross with both of them. I actually went over there to tell her we were expecting our second baby and that she was going to be an aunt. Instead I left in tears. Aibu about my SIL's actions? Aibu about expecting my husband to get down off the fence and call her up on her behaviour?
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Coconutty ·
31/10/2016 07:05
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