AIBU to ask for marks-out-of 10 for how happy you are with sex in your relationship

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This thought was triggered by a reply I made on another thread in the section. It made me think/reflect about how lucky I feel in my relationship with DH with respect to sex & intimacy aspects.

How long together? Just over 20 years
Marks out of 10? 8/10

Why such a high mark? It's not as if we do anything special. Sometimes it is quick, sometimes longer, sometimes very vanilla, sometimes more variety. Frequency seems OK for us too. I know/understand what DH likes, as he does for me. Sometimes it feels like a bit of "work" and I have to make an effort, and that's something we do in other aspects of our relationship too.

I wonder how my DH would rate it? I could be in for an unpleasant surprise I'll ask him after he gets back from football later this evening.