Our house has always been rather a scruffy house. Three children - the youngest now at university. The older two were my stepchildren and my partner never put any energy into getting them to be tidy. Everybody messy/chaotic/with hoarding tendencies. Money often in short supply so things would get rather tired-looking. But as the nest has emptied the place has become a bit more orderly.
We also recently decided to redecorate the kitchen which is a large room - think dining kitchen. This was done ourselves cheaply. Fresh coats of paint and two sets of curtains bought off eBay and Gumtree. One set, I hemmed by hand to shorten them to an appropriate length.
In order to get the overall look of the room right, I also repainted a wall cupboard inside and out. The previous paint was badly discoloured in one place, because we'd developed the habit of plugging in the bread machine directly underneath. The heat coming out of a vent on the machine had gradually burned the paint over the years.
So I said to my husband we should plug the bread machine in at a different socket which is just on the edge of the draining board by the sink. He agreed to do this.
Since he retired he has taken on the job of being the house breadmaker and we quite often run out or nearly run out of bread. Last night there was no bread, and I reminded him at supper, so he opted to make a loaf using the quick programme and said he'd do this after doing the washing up.
I then came in and found he'd plugged in the bread machine in its old place underneath the newly painted cupboard. I asked him why he had done this, rather than moving the washing up slightly so that he could use the new place and he said. 'The saucepans are heavy and I'm tired'. Also 'The pots wanted to dry naturally'
I am not normally ultra houseproud. But I got very upset by feeling that my attempt to keep one newly painted area fairly clean was being sabotaged because my husband couldn't be bothered to dry up a couple of big saucepans.
Would you have been upset too, do you think?
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kinloss · 29/10/2016 18:44
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