I live in an area with very affluent pockets, and have some very high earning friends. Had this situation a few times...
Friend sees baby needs new items of clothing, has beautiful designer items and brings them for me to borrow. Seriously expensive stuff, looks unworn despite their child using it. It's a loan, for as long as o need the items. However I think I have caused offence with new friend, her sister popped by with items for me (out the blue having seen need) and I politely said thank you but gave them back. Explained I was nervous about losing or marking items. I didn't want to keep them safe in house either, as always the risk of dh having a random clear out or passing on not knowing what it is (this once happened with reusable nappies I never used but were dropped off for ds1)
Friend is now offended as baby is in lots of other clothes from another friend. But these are cheap supermarket items that have been through multiple babies and I can do as I wish with. I'm not one to fuss if they are the wrong gender frankly. Baby doesn't care.
Surely no one accepts loans of baby clothes, however good the intent or beautiful the items are, as it's a quick recipe for a fallout when the toddler rips/ marks them or you leave outer layers in a playgroup....? Or am I miserable
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UpDown · 27/10/2016 09:18
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