So I come home tonight and DP announces he is putting a tow bar on his van so no longer needs his car. We have a Family car (which ultimately I paid for) and he has his van (for his work). We don't use his car as its a banged up old thing, but a bit of a classic so worth maybe 2/3k.
Anyways - he says he can now sell it and is thinking he's going to buy a tractor. We have a patch of land but nothing that would warrant the need for a tractor (not at least at the moment as its let). I told him we are not in a position to be spending that kind of money on something we don't really need and listed about 10 things needing done in the house. I also reminded him (nicely) where he is happy to 'get by' (e.g. Put up with putrid hell carpet), I am not and don't want to live like that. And pointed out that when we sold my car the money went on a family car for us to use, and that we don't have a high amount of disposable income at the moment (mat pay finished, me not really working, baby).
Obviously unimpressed he's not said much in response.. I then said I'd make a deal with him and if he sold the car that he could keep half the money and the other half would go on the house. He said 'I'll think about it'and went to sleep.
I think my offer is more than fair and I am not being unreasonable. Thoughts?
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To tell DP he can't spend car money on a tractor?!
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Georgeofthejungle · 27/10/2016 00:19
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