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AIBU?

To kick up a fuss tomorrow in reception?

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whensitmyturn · 25/10/2016 00:11

At a park dean/hoseasons resort in Scotland, been to a couple of others before, never had any problems but first time to this particular one. First night In a static caravan and all of us have just been woken by at least 6 men screaming, shouting and swearing in the last half an hour in the caravan right next to us and they're still going. I didn't think places like this allowed single sex groups? It's actually terrifying, I've rang night security, but no answer and have left a message. It's horrible the kids have all been woken up and are scared.

I can't believe someone would put that large a group of men in amongst families.

I'm going straight to reception to speak to them in the morning, can we ask to be moved? There's no way I can stay in this caravan another night with all of them a few feet away and for night security not to even answer is massively poor.

Our heating is broken and they said they would send someone to fix it and no- ones turned up and it's 4 degrees. I've never complained before on any holiday but I'd actually rather be at home.
Aibu to kick up a fuss tomorrow morning? Or what should I say to them?

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JammyDodger16 · 25/10/2016 00:13

Is there any way you can make a recording of the noise to show them? Sounds awful

EveOnline2016 · 25/10/2016 00:14

Don't kick off, it's not the receptionist fault.

However be firm and polite it may get you somewhere

TheoriginalMrsDarcy · 25/10/2016 00:14

Perhaps you could film the men and show reception tomorrow. I dont think ur unreasonable to ask to be moved at all.

Dontpanicpyke · 25/10/2016 00:15

can you call the police?

whensitmyturn · 25/10/2016 00:20

eve definitely don't want to shout at reception girls I think I'll probably cry, it's horrible. I almost came up alone with my dc's but I invited xh along fairly last min and I am so glad I did I don't think I could have stayed here alone with them. They sound as though they're about to fall in our van, spitting and effing and blinding, I'm usually pretty good at confronting people but no way are either of us confronting 6 drunk lairy men with our kids here.

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OlennasWimple · 25/10/2016 00:20

I'd call the police if they are still going...

WorraLiberty · 25/10/2016 00:20

Keep ringing security. It's not good enough that they're not answering.

And yes, definitely ask to move if it continues.

As for an all male group in amongst families, it's probably a private caravan so reception would have no control over who rents it.

However, that doesn't mean they don't have control over the anti social behaviour.

avamiah · 25/10/2016 00:24

call the police and say you have children.

whensitmyturn · 25/10/2016 00:28

Night security just answered and said they're on their way.

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TaterTots · 25/10/2016 00:28

I think you're being unreasonable to blame it on it being 'a group of men'. If the party staying next to you are causing problems, complain - but don't make it a gender issue.

WorraLiberty · 25/10/2016 00:30

Glad they're on their way.

Tater to be fair to the OP, she does also say "I didn't think places like this allowed single sex groups?"

IME they don't, but if it's a private rental they don't get a say.

FannyFifer · 25/10/2016 00:32

How on earth is it a gender issue, saying it's a group of men causing probs when it actually is a group of men causing probs is just stating the facts surely.

harverina · 25/10/2016 00:34

If the same group are still in the van next door tomorrow then I would definitely ask to be moved. Though they may be asked to leave. Hopefully night security have calmed things down now but if they don't or if it happens again I would probably just call the police.

And the op hasn't made it a gender issue. If they are men then they are men. Simple.

AskBasil · 25/10/2016 00:35

But it is a group of men.

The OP is not being unreasonable to describe them as a group of men because that's what they are.

Glad the night security are coming out for you whenitsmyturn

Cucumber5 · 25/10/2016 00:37

Yes do!

Cucumber5 · 25/10/2016 00:38

Do they have Twitter? Go for a two pronged approach

TaterTots · 25/10/2016 00:41

How on earth is it a gender issue, saying it's a group of men causing probs when it actually is a group of men causing probs is just stating the facts surely.

Because she said 'Why put a group of men so near families?' As if men are somehow intrinsically offensive to anyone with kids.

avamiah · 25/10/2016 00:42

Fannyfifer,
Hahaha ,
Your 100 percent correct as it is a load of men(males) causing a disturbance at this time in the morning.
What more is there to say.

TaterTots · 25/10/2016 00:47

The OP is not being unreasonable to describe them as a group of men because that's what they are.

But she is being unreasonable to say that a group of men should never have been allowed near her in the first place.

whensitmyturn · 25/10/2016 00:47

Security just knocked on our door and told us that two of the men have been escorted from the park they've left in their van. It's apparently a works do??? They said the rest of the men in the van seem fine but 2 were very drunk and aggressive.
I'm pleased they acted as they did but wished they could have rang and told us that now the men will know it was us who rang. There's no way I can sleep now incase they come back.

tater either a single sex group of men and women being that loud would have been awful but I would have been nowhere near as scared of a group of women that I am those men especially as they sounded so aggressive. I didn't mean to say all groups of men are bad near families its just I know a lot of campsites won't allow single sex groups of either men and women.

You must be right though worra that it's a private caravan I never thought of that option.

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WorraLiberty · 25/10/2016 00:56

I suppose Tater kind of has a point but that's only because I was in a caravan at Clacton on Sea one year and a group of women (hen party) actually ended up fighting, trashing their caravan and stabbing a woman in their party.

That was pretty terrifying too, especially as my kids were all under the age of 10 at the time.

But I get what you mean that they don't normally allow single sex parties unless the rental is private.

FluffyPineapple · 25/10/2016 01:05

The OP mentioned that a group of same sex people are usually not allowed at family parks - which they are not. Regardless of whether it is a group of men or a group of women. Family parks usually only accept family bookings.

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Peanutandphoenix · 25/10/2016 01:08

Single sex groups are allowed to go on holiday you know and for all you know one of them could own the caravan that they are staying in but that doesn't excuse their behaviour am glad security has sorted them out for you.

TaterTots · 25/10/2016 01:12

The point is the problem wasn't caused by the gender of those involved - it was by those involved behaving like twats. I'm not disputing that the OP did the right thing by complaining about the bad behaviour.

NightCzar · 25/10/2016 01:15

All that aside, if your heating isn't working get them to move you!

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