He has had them from yesterday and we agreed he'd bring them back Tuesday. That means about 45% of half term, and we did agree I would have them a bit more than him in holidays, so this has really gone his way rather than mine if anything.
I had collected ds2 from his to take to a party today (they both had one opposite ends of town at exactly the same time, or I would not have been involved). When he picked ds2 up after the party I asked what time he'd bring them back on Tues and he said 'I thought we said Weds.' He then refused to say what time he would bring them and kept saying he didn't know yet. It was horrible - the dc were there and ds2 asked on my behalf. I tried to keep it light and wished them a lovely time, but it wasn't good.
Now I am going to be anxious all day on Tuesday and I'm not convinced he will even bring them, or let me know anything. I won't know what is going on until they appear - or not. I am considering ringing his dm on the day to ask her if he doesn't respond to texts.
WIBU and wtf was the point in mediation? Over the summer he had them far less than we had agreed - must have had a better offer then that has now disappeared.
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notagainnellie · 23/10/2016 17:36
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