Ex works mon-fri, I work fri-sun, 50/50 residency of 3DC me: mon 7.45am - Thursday 4.30, every other Saturday night. Separated for a year and and a half.
On 'my' Saturday's, I collect kids after work at 5.30pm, we have tea at my parents and then kids stay over as I have to work early on Sunday, and my parents take DC out and drop then over to ex at 4.30ish.
Until recently the Saturday arrangement with me collecting and DC staying over with my DPs was every week, he insisted that 'technically' EOW but he 'allowed' them to stay at my DPs. I think since seeking legal advice he has changed this and now has DC eery other sat in order to establish a clearer 50/50 split.
Here's the issue: ex financially controlling, and for months has been harassing me for half the cost of childcare for the Friday's. It is his day, youngest DC goes to nursery and same nursery do school pickups and dropoffs. So far I've refused to pay, as I believe that this is childcare he requires as it is his day. I'm right, aren't I? Or aibu?!
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wheelwithinawheel · 23/10/2016 11:24
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