This post has arisen from a discussion on an earlier thread about single sex v co-ed schools.
My 12 year old DD frequently gets called a slag or slut by boys at school. This is for little things like being in someone's way in the corridor. The boys at school regularly rate the girls on their 'fitness' in public and comment about their breasts. Some of the girls, including my DD, keep their sweatshirts on in school even when it's really hot to stop boys from commenting on their breasts.
I regularly see adult men eyeing her up when we're out and about (first time was when she was 9). She's a normal, young for her age, 12 year old. She doesn't wear any make up or clothing that could make her look older her look older. She's not particularly well developed physically for her age. She just look likes a kid.
She said she feels like a piece of meat sometimes and the boys at school only rate girls in terms of their physical appearance and 'sexiness'.
I consider myself to be a feminist and have raised her to think critically about gender stereotypes but despite this she thinks it's just something that she must endure, particularly at school.
I've contacted some other mums of girls who attend the same school to find out their experiences and am seriously thinking about approaching school when I have a fuller picture.
Is this awful culture of sexism and hypersexualised behaviour standard in secondary schools these days?
Any teachers/school staff out there with advice on how such a culture can be changed in schools?
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My 12 year old DD shouldn't have to be subject to sexism and unwanted male attention so frequently
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crispandcheesesanwichplease · 20/10/2016 21:13
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