I know this might be seen as a strange question.
Almost 2 years ago I found out I can't have kids. Dp has one DC from a previous relationship but does not want any more.
Since realising that I can't have children, it has made me think about all those ideas of 'family life' I had growing up. I grew up in a family with multiple siblings and with both my biological parents, so typical 'nuclear' family. I was married before DP but it didn't work out and I kind of feel like my 'dream' of having my own family unit died with that marriage, especially since I now know I won't have my own children.
So, aibu for feeling like Dp and I are a 'couple' and that a 'family' is only the correct description if you have kids? I don't mean to offend anyone else who doesn't have kids, either by choice or not, its just that since DP and I are now engaged there's a lot of talk about joining two people together to make a family and I kind of feel like a little bit of a fraud using that description and I'm not sure why
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To not think of a couple without kids as a 'family'?
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FedupofbeingtoldIcantusemyname · 19/10/2016 13:33
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