I was reading an article that popped up on FB the other day that stated that there are people working on some kind of 'cure' for ASD, some sort of medication I think.
Every single one of the comments on the article were saying that it was offensive to those with ASD, that it isn't a disease and doesn't need to be 'cured', that it was disgusting that they were even attempting to eradicate or 'fix' it.
I couldn't help disagreeing. While I don't have ASD myself, I do have a lot of experience with it as DN has it severely. I understand that a lot of people with ASD have full lives, relationships, jobs and so on, some feel that it is a part of their personality and as such cannot be 'removed' without them losing a bit of themselves. I sympathise with that. Obviously if a medication became available that would 'cure' ASD, presumably they could choose not to take it?
But for some, including DN, there are a lot of things in life that they very likely won't experience because of the ASD. DN is still doubly incontinent at age 10, he may never be fully toilet trained. He will probably never get married or have children. He will almost certainly never have a job or go to university. He will never even live independantly as it would be too dangerous for him. So, for him, if a 'cure' was available, I would want him to have it, for his sake rather than anyone else's.
Aibu to think that, while ASD is not a 'disease' that needs to be cured, if there was something available for DN that would take away all the symptoms, all the sensory issues, and just allow him to function in the world as everyone else does, I would want him to have it? Or am I an uncaring monster for thinking that?
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FedupofbeingtoldIcantusemyname · 18/10/2016 21:54
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