I have residence and he sees them usually every other weekend. I know he does love them and he is probably on the spectrum. He doesn't have any common sense.
They are 14 and 12. One of our children is severely disabled so she can't speak up but dd2 has stopped going to see him at the weekend because he lives in a one bedroom flat that he doesn't clean very much. He has a very good job and works Monday to Sunday. He's a workaholic basically. I am sure he could afford a more suitable home for our girls to go and visit.
My 12 year old says that when they go to stay with his parents they don't give them enough food to eat (they are very tight with money) she says that she and her sister get half portions and she feels hungry after meals. My 7 year old eats adult portions and she's tiny (we all are). Last time they went to stay with their dad at his parents dd2 woke up to find she had started her periods and her dad made her wait until 2pm before he got her any pads.
What would you do? He doesn't seem to be able to take on board things I say.
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lottieandmia · 13/10/2016 21:44
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