I have been with my husband for 12 years, since our children were between 4 and 6. We've never treated each others children as if they weren't pet of or family and we've all always got along as well as a family of 7 can haha.
My 2 sons, step daughter and step son are all in relationship. I get on brilliantly with and adore all of them apart from stepsons girlfriend. She really is not the nicest of girls and at times I find it hard to be around her. I've always tried to be nice to her and welcome her into our home as I understand she could very well be around for a long time.
This evening DD told me the girlfriend has cottoned on that I don't like her much and DSS told her it's only because he isn't my real son and she should just ignore it because I'll never feel the same about her as I do my 2 sons girlfriends.
For some reason this really hurt me. He knows my reasons for not being a fan and I've always tried to be nice to her. But not only that but I've always treated my step children as though they were my own so to me it seems like a real punch in the face that he's making out like I'll never like his girlfriends because he isn't my real son. It's also not like I've only ever liked my sons girlfriends and never his, my younger son used to see a vile girl that I ended up banning from our house and DSSs ex girlfriend was lovely and we got on really well.
DH says I'm just being sensitive but I can't help but feel sad :( AIBU?
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Dramallamamama · 12/10/2016 18:22
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