I am cringing and need soothing!!
My partner has just told MIL that the reason I don't visit often is because I don't like FIL. MIL is difficult but ok and I am fond of her, but father in law is racist, sexist and generally horrible. He makes my skin crawl and always says something to offend and the only way to stop him upsetting me is to avoid as much as possible.
After years of mother in law wondering why they hardly see me, the truth is out! Can the truth ever be a good thing or should my partner have just continued to pretend I am always busy?
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Is he BU or is the truth better?
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SandysMam · 12/10/2016 12:49
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