So me and DH have been separated for 3 months now. Finally got finances sorted fairly with mediation or so I thought.
I have been planning DS' birthday for last couple of weeks and asked if he would like to get his own present for DS or leave it to me and pay half towards the day out, cake and presents. He agreed to pay half and that he would give it to me just before DS birthday. So I have budgeted around this and surprise surprise now it is all booked and presents bought he's decided to inform me he cannot give me a penny which is going to leave me short for the rest of the month.
I do not want to spoil DS birthday so said ok, I will manage somehow don't worry about it I just want DS to enjoy his day. This set off a tirade about how he knows "there will be a price to pay in the future" and how he'd be able to afford to contribute if he didn't have to be "helping me" by paying what is actually just child maintenance. Everytime I think we are getting to something nearing amicable he starts something again.
Would you still invite him to the day out/present opening etc? I don't know what to do as I just want DS to have a lovely day but at the same time don't think "DH" deserves to be there and feel like as usual I'm being taken for a mug by him. Thanks!
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Nursejackie1 · 12/10/2016 10:21
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